Home Going: Remembering Legends

The sisters of my mother’s father and my mother’s mother both passed away this month within weeks of each other.

On that fateful night of her passing, my grand-aunt told her daughter that she had the opportunity to witness President Obama serve his terms as a president.

She was satisfied.

My grand-aunt was 101 years old and passed away circa 7:30 pm on January 19th, while President Obama was still in office. I’d like to romance the story, say she was the daughter of a slave. So to witness a man of African descent become a U.S. President was the moment to treasure — but there’s no record of slavery on my maternal side.

My maternal ancestors have their roots, going back as far as 4 generations in West Virginia. And oddly, there were no reports of slavery in the lineage on my mother’s father’s side either. When we looked back, we found Farmers, Milliners, Confectioners who owned stores to sell their goods and produce. Maybe my “Aunt Rie” was especially proud to witness a president of African descent serve. Growing up in Georgia – meant “Life was no crystal stairs,” especially living “separate but equal” lives.

She lived it well anyway.

In addition to being an entrepreneur and giving birth to my cousins, she also witnessed her son, bodybuilder, Jim Morris, become Mr. USA (1972) and Mr. America (1973). My cousin Jim preceded her in death last January at 80 years old.

My other grand-aunt, “Aunt Bella,” was 91 when she passed away on the 3rd of this month. She eventually settled in New York City with her mother, sisters, and brothers but never lost her West Virginia accent. I can still hear her saying she will get “Tars from Fahr-a-stones” (tires from Firestone’s).

My Aunt Bella taught me to handicap horses. I was older than a toddler but not yet a tween,” and we would go, Belmont, Aqueduct, and Saratoga (upstate N.Y.) in the summer to play the horses.

I remember seeing the thoroughbred Secretariat run and win. I used to run to get autographs from the jockeys as they were on their way back to the clubhouse. I even got the signature of the first female jockey I met, Robin Smith, who later married Fred Astaire.

I had a knack for picking winners too. I’d start with the name. The name told me about the horses’ personalities. I’d look at the size of their rear and consider the condition of the track – on a dry day – slimmer horses can fly. A muddy track – the thoroughbreds with the big rears use those muscles to their advantage.

But I digress.

I played the horses right up until Ruffian broke his leg at the Belmont racetrack in New York. My mind couldn’t reconcile what happened to the horse’s leg, and I ran to my aunt, who told me he would have to be killed because there was no coming back from that type of injury. It hit me then; the thoroughbreds I would watch trot around the paddock in the morning were beautiful beings who were meant to be free too.

I never placed another bet again.

At the time of writing this farewell, I realized my aunts were free women. I never heard either of these women complain about their circumstances. They were proud but not in defying their surroundings, proud. Instead, they possessed a knowing. As if their surroundings didn’t determine their walk. They lived the way they decided despite the environment. And when it came time to leave, they chose that too.

Rest Well, Aunties.

[disclaimer: I wasn’t old enough to bet, my aunt played for me]

Globetrotting | Rome, Italy

College Rules? Maybe Congress will decide U.S. President in 2016

Presidential Electors have been electing the U.S. President since 1787.  Yet What I Found On The Internet, most recently on Jelly, the Q & A social website;  not enough of us understand how this body of electors function in our democracy.   POP QUIZ:

English: Electoral college map for the 2012 United States presidential election (note: Nebraska and Maine split their EVs by congressional district). Sources used: Pollster.com, CNN.com, MSNBC.com, AP.org, and FOXNews.com

How many electoral votes does a candidate need to win the presidential election?

If you answered 270, you would be correct.

What happens if none of the candidates win the majority of the 538 electoral votes up for grabs?

The House of Representatives elects the president by choosing between the 3 presidential candidates who received the most electoral votes. The U.S. Senate elects the vice-president by selecting between the 2  VP candidates who received the most electoral votes.  (1)

Your Vote Counts!

Not only does your individual vote determine the presidential electors in your state; your vote will decide the balance of power in U.S. Congress.   This is just one of the reasons why it is essential to vote for representatives and senators in off-year elections.

This time, however, there’s extra incentive to head to the polls on Tuesday, November 8, 2016,

Did you know according to Ballotpedia (2),  there are 34 Senate seats and all 435 seats in the U.S. House of Representatives up for election?

Mainstream media’s focus remains on the U.S. Presidential race. But a closer look is warranted for a large number of U.S. congressional legislators are retiring and others just not interested in running again. (3)

The U.S Congress could decide the next U.S. President if the Democratic or Republican presidential nominee doesn’t win the majority of the electoral votes.  With a renewed interest in a third-party presidential run, some in the electorate would like to know

3rd Party Win
Jelly Ask About A 3rd Party Win

 “Can a third-party candidate win the United States presidential election?”

Currently, there are Libertarian and Green Party presidential nominees in play.  If either didn’t win, they could definitely affect the outcome of the electoral vote tally. Especially if either won the popular (plurality) vote in one or more states.

For example, the Libertarian and Green Party candidates can get on the ballot in all 50 states. At a minimum, they can run in states like California and Texas, both with a large number of presidential electors up for grabs. (4).  <–this is important!!!

If the Libertarian or Green Party candidate wins the popular vote in the state, her/his party’s presidential electors get called to cast their vote for President.   Note: Presidential electors are bound either by state law or party regulations to cast her/his electoral vote for the candidate that won.

So imagine if the presidential nominee for the Libertarian Party won Texas. This means he wins 38 electoral votes.  With only 538 electoral votes available, there are 500 electoral votes to split between the rest of the candidates.  There’s now no 270 for the win.  For the first time since, 1824, the U.S. Congress would decide not only the Vice President but also who will hold the highest office in the United States.


Still thinking about not voting in November? Think again.